If you want a lot of muscle, you’ll need to make some sacrifices. Flexibility, lifespan, ability to breathe properly. That kind of thing. Bob personally prefers you don’t make the exchange.
Martha Haney took an axe, and gave Rod something to write a book on. Why does a woman behead her mother in law? We’ll probably never know. If anyone can figure it out, it’ll be Rod. It’s a family tradition.
The mob is an oft-romanticized organization. That doesn’t mean it’s a good thing. For example, imagine trying to be a father while also dodging hits and feds. John Gotti Jr. did imagine it and decided it wasn’t for him.